When you get to this point, where it feels too hard, it’s your scheduled time to do some self-reflection, some self-maintenance. When you’ve decided to make a major life-change, you can throw all thoughts of chance or coincidence out the window. These things happen for a reason…and it’s not a bad one.
Initiating a transformation in your life’s journey sends a big loud message to the universe that says “I’m ready! Show me everything I need to change about myself to meet my goals!” Guess how that prayer gets answered – things get ugly. Man is unique among all creation because of our power of choice. In order to honor that power in us, God does not answer prayers (spoken or unspoken) by simply changing who we are. That would be a violation. Instead, he gives us opportunities, challenges, to exercise a new choice. He’s going to arrange circumstances to bring us face to face with our bad habits, our insecurities, our limiting beliefs. So it seems to get worse before it gets
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Complaining soothes you when you’re in a bad situation. It keeps you from reaching a point of action. Complaining keeps you stuck. Read my real life example and how it brought clarity in my life when I stopped. The clarity to see how I had been compromising and victimizing
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An Archetype is not a personality trait. It’s more like a mechanism, or a universal law that fires into action at certain points in our life, giving you a choice as to how you’re going to deal with it.
There are four universal Archetypes: The Saboteur, the Prostitute, the Child, and the Victim. Explore how each of these are present in our lives and how we can use these Archetypes to live life
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No man (or woman…or gummie bear) is an island. We are all influenced by our friends, family, coworkers, teachers, church, and on and on. When you take on a major life change, you are doing so with all those influences in tow. How do we decipher who is a good support for a new change in our life, and how can we anticipate who is going to make it harder on
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We all have in us a saboteur. Every change we attempt in life will soon catch the attention of this archetype and without fail he will spring into action. Often times the saboteur will do so when we reach the point where we are just starting to feel like we are accomplishing the change in question. The Saboteur’s job is to exploit that moment of doubt, that fear of failure, and provide an escape hatch. Learn four steps to help you recognize the saboteur’s actions, and leverage a crisis moment to gain strength, self-esteem, and significant progress toward your
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